5 Romantic Getaways Near Wilmington, NC

If you're lucky enough to have President’s Day off this year, you’ve just scored a three-day weekend right on Valentine’s Day. That’s your cue to pack a bag, grab your person, and hit the road for a romantic escape—no flights required.

Here are five dreamy destinations within a four-hour drive from Wilmington that deliver big on charm, ambiance, and “just the two of us” vibes.

Charleston, SC: If romance had a hometown, it might just be Charleston. About 3.5 hours from Wilmington, this Lowcountry gem is all cobblestone streets, history, and Southern charm. Picture a cozy horse-drawn carriage ride or a rowboat for two at Cypress Gardens (okay, maybe bring a blanket—it is February). Sunset strolls along the Battery or through the historic French Quarter are practically required.

For Valentine’s weekend, you could sail away on the SpiritLine Cruises Valentine’s Dinner Cruise or try something different like the Romeo and Juliet by Candlelight performance or a Valentine’s Candle Making Class on February 13.

For where to stay? The luxurious Wentworth Mansion is pure indulgence, while the Emeline offers charm and curated style.

Beaufort, NC: This little coastal town is like stepping into a love letter to the past. Beaufort is quiet, walkable, and packed with personality—ideal for couples who want to slow down and soak up the charm. Take a waterfront stroll, browse the boutiques and galleries along Front Street, or head to Shackleford Banks to spot wild horses and collect shells (weather permitting). On Fridays and Saturdays, there's even ice skating at the Beaufort Hotel.

Valentine’s weekend highlights include a unique Caviar Farm Tour & Tasting at Marshallberg Farm in nearby Smyrna (just 17 minutes away) on February 13, or a cozy Jazz Lover’s Night on the 14th at Carteret Community College featuring three hours of live jazz, food, and a cash bar. Rest your head at one of the town’s lovely B&Bs—The Pecan Tree Inn or Ann Street Inn are both solid picks.

Charlotte, NC: Not the first place that comes to mind for a romantic getaway? Trust us—Charlotte delivers. Just 3.5 hours from Wilmington, the Queen City offers a surprisingly romantic blend of luxury hotels, art, music, and delicious food. Go for a private gondola ride, visit the UNC Charlotte Botanical Gardens, or catch the sunset at Romare Bearden Park with its dancing fountains and skyline views. Browse the Mint Museum, pop into a few galleries, or see a show at one of the city’s many theaters.

Valentine’s-specific events include a Valentine’s Eve Cooking Class at Chef Alyssa’s Kitchen, a Saint-Valentin celebration dinner by Chef Dorji Tshering at Sora (called Amour & Umami: A Valentine’s Soirée), and the John Pizzarelli Trio playing at The Jazz Room on both the 13th and 14th.

For where to stay? Try The Ivey’s “Rendezvous for Two” package—complete with flowers, champagne, and chocolate-covered strawberries—or opt for the elegant Ballantyne with its spa, expansive grounds, and breakfast-in-bed service.

Pinehurst, NC: Known more for golf than grand gestures, Pinehurst might surprise you. Just under three hours from Wilmington, this charming village offers peaceful luxury, perfect for couples who appreciate refinement with a side of quiet. Share a couples massage and afternoon tea at the iconic Pinehurst Resort, sip cocktails at sunset, or indulge in a wine pairing dinner at The Copper Door. Wander the storybook streets of Pinehurst Village or take your own wine tasting tour along the Sandhills Wine Trail.

For something festive, check out the Valentine’s Couples Dinner Party at Savory House Kitchen. Stay at the Magnolia Inn or The Carolina Hotel for intimate charm and classic hospitality—or go all-in on the Pinehurst Resort experience.

Bald Head Island, NC: Want to completely unplug? Bald Head Island is your place. Accessible only by ferry from Southport or private boat, this car-free island wraps you in peace, quiet, and natural beauty. Spend your days walking the beach, stargazing (less light pollution = more magic), and visiting the Island Retreat Spa. You can also hop back to Southport for a Cape Fear River sunset cruise.

Valentine’s-specific options this year include an etched glass couples workshop at the Shoals Club Pavilion (for members and their guests), a special Valentine’s Brunch at Aqua on the 15th, or a gourmet takeout meal from Gourmet to Go for a cozy candlelit dinner back at your rental. For lodging, check out The Inn at Bald Head Island or The Marsh Harbour Inn (guest membership to The Shoals Club included)—or rent a beach home for more privacy.

So, where are you headed this Valentine’s Day? Whether you’re craving sunset strolls, spa days, or jazz nights, there’s something just a short drive from Wilmington to fit your vibe. If you’ve got another romantic favorite in the region, I’d love to hear about it—drop your go-to spot in the comments!